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Watch out for these signs of cheating spouses

Watch out for these signs of cheating spouses

One or two of the listed signs are probably nothing to worry about, but if you see or notice several of these signs, it may be time to have a serious discussion with your spouse.

  1. Your Spouse is Being Secretive – If you have noticed that over the past few months your spouse has been secretive, this could be one of the signs of cheating you should be looking for. Often times cheating spouses will be very protective of their computers or cell phones. They may often shield texts or e-mails from you as well. You may also notice that your spouse is coming up with excuses for hiding these e-mails or texts that are just too detailed or not detailed enough.
  2. Your Partner is Away From Home A Lot – Your partner may be working later than normal, having to go into work on the weekends or when they normally do not have work hours. Though this can certainly happen in some professions, if it happens often or more than you are used to, it may be worth checking out.
  3. Extended Phone Calls – You may notice or be suspicious if your partner suddenly has been on the phone a lot or for an extended period of time. In addition to this, you may notice that they are also using the computer more than normal. Both can be signs of cheating.
  4. Changes in Libido – If your partner has been showing changes in libido, such as wanting to make love a lot more or seeming uninterested in making love with you, both can be signs that they are having an affair.
  5. Daydreaming – Not being able to focus on anything or seeing your spouse obviously daydreaming may be an indication that some kind of infidelity is going on. Though this is usually not a sign in itself, it definitely could be a supporting sign when trying to determine if your spouse is being unfaithful.
  6. Changes in Treatment – Your partner may be making some changes in their appearance. For instance, they may have unexpectedly joined a gym or went out and bought new clothing. Even a haircut or makeover can be a red flag of infidelity if it is unexpected or out of the norm for your spouse.
  7. Unusual Scents or Marks – Smelling unfamiliar cologne or perfume on your spouse can be a dead giveaway of an affair. You may also see unusual marks, like cuts or bruises on your spouse’s skin.
  8. Changes in Tastes – Your spouse listening to new music or watching new television shows out of the blue can also be a sign of infidelity. One reason they may be doing this is to find something in common with their lover or to connect better with their lover.
  9. Simple Peculiar Actions – Sometimes you won’t be able to even put your finger on any particular action. You may just have a feeling that something isn’t right. You should probably, in this case, always trust your instinct.
  10. Changes in Treatment – A cheating spouse will often start bringing home random gifts, making you special meals or treating you better in general. Many times they’re doing this because it helps them feel better about having an affair.

What you should always keep in mind about the signs listed above is if your spouse is doing these things, it certainly won’t always mean they are having an affair. It could mean they are just having a bad day or week. However, if your instinct is telling you that something may be going on and they are exhibiting several of these signs, it may be something to look into.

By Lucille Patterson

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