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How to woo a man – six powerful tips

Wooing is less of an art and more of a scientific method. Whether or not it’s your husband, boyfriend, lover, or a seeming “Unavailable Man,” there are tips that every woman can learn in mastering how to woo a man. Try and reflect on a couple important questions and thoughts:

- Are you confident? Confidence is sexy! Every man wants a woman that is sure of themselves. Guys don’t get pleasure from passing time with a woman that must have constant affirmation. Know that you are fabulous! Are you a couple of pounds overweight? So what! Many men find this attractive if only there is a greater level of confidence to back it up.

- Independence is another important attribute to be employed in learning how to woo a man. This is really critical in powerful relationship building. The “Unavailable Man” especially finds this to be sexy. Do you find yourself asking permission to go out with your girlfriends?  Forget it!  Of course it is important to make your man know that they are number one, but it is also paramount for them to know that you can have a great time without them.
- Gain Attraction by being Polite and Thoughtful. Are you mean to the waiter while on a date? Do you gossip negatively about your friends, co-workers, etc…? Why would a man find this attractive? You can try and fake it but it’s not going to fly.  If you try and dish this out to the “Unavailable Man” he will give it back and take even more advantage. Learn to be a good person and you will see the male attraction level increase greatly.

- Being Mysterious. It is an amazing aphrodisiac and should be used in learning how to woo a man. You should not talk about every thought or emotion…BORING! If he asks you about an awkward or funny moment you don’t have to spill the beans. However, be careful to only use this quality at the start of a relationship. Using this on a husband or boyfriend may lead them to question your monogamy. It is, of course, the most powerful character trait to use on the “Unavailable Man.”

- Let your man be the Hunter and Protector and you will gain a masters degree in how to woo a man. Don’t be afraid to lean on him and hold his arm when crossing the street. Smile shyly and ask him to help with a handyman task at your home. Seek his protection and hold his hand tightly when the large and intimidating neighbourhood dog comes close. This character trait is so important and lets a man tune into his caveman roots. This is also a strong indicator to see if he is truly interested or just the “Unavailable Man.”

- The last powerful trait in learning how to woo a man is so simple. SMILE!! Are you laughing at his jokes? You’d better be if you want to keep things going. Let your eyes light up with a sparkling display of pleasure. This lets them know that you are really happy in their presence. Besides…if you’re not amused, why would you want to see them again anyway?

Rachel Capps


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